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Family heirlooms to change or not to change them?

By Debbiedoo's Team Published: Aug 5, 2013 · Modified: Dec 30, 2014

Family Heirlooms:

In popular usage, an heirloom is something, perhaps an antique or some kind of jewelry, that has been passed down for generations through family members.

The term originated with the historical principle of an heirloom in English law, a chattel which by immemorial usage was regarded as annexed by inheritance to a family estate. Loom originally meant a tool.

So the question is, do you change,alter give a facelift to  family heirlooms?

Mike and I have been collecting antiques for years.

Some have been passed down from the family,

and some,

well, not even from our families, however from the families of perfect strangers.

Everything has a story.

And one day, these heirlooms will be passed onto our boys, hopefully from generation to generation,

with new stories to be told.

I have always been opposed to painting our antiques or treasures passed along the way.

I have no problem perhaps restoring, or bringing new life to them, but actually painting over new color, new paint, NO, that has been a never.

With that being said,

There was one thing recently given to me by my Father in law,

and if I recall his exact words were “do what you want with it,

you can even paint it if you like”.

 

Yes, I had a light bulb moment and decided this is ONE family heirloom

which was my husbands Grandmothers btw I would paint.

 

It is a vintage sewing basket, however

it was filled with vintage jewelry when given to us.

Soooo….

I just happened to have a can of Annie Sloan Louis blue chalkpaint left from last year.

One of my favorite colors.

Repurposed vintage sewing basket

So I got busy!

Painted two coats

let completely dry

lightly clear waxed

let it dry

and then lightly distressed.

Painted vintage sewing basket with Louis Blue Annie Sloan chalk paint

It goes perfectly in our bedroom and now I feel I made it my own. Making new memories for this vintage sewing basket to be perhaps talked about in years to come.

But no regrets for me on painting this piece.

Vintage sewing basket

I simply love it and will enjoy it myself for years to come.

Right now, it still holds some vintage jewelry in it,

however, I can always add to it, or keep some of my craft paints in there as well.

ForBefore and after vintage sewing basket

For a chance to Win a $50.00 True Value gift card:

Watch this very short, touching  video HERE

 

In fact, you will be touched after watching.

 Come back and tell me a little about your family heirlooms

Have you ever altered in any way a family heirloom? 

This is a sponsored/compensated post for True Value, however, all opinions and work are my own.

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  1. kirby carespodi

    August 05, 2013 at 7:17 pm

    I laughingly call myself “Keeper of the dead people’s stuff” because I have inherited all the old family things. I only paint it if it’s in rough shape, and I hope that the best pieces will go to my kids. But EVERY SINGLE ONE of those items has a story, and I’ll tell them to whomever will listen. I hope one of my children will take them.

    Reply
    • Dawn

      September 15, 2013 at 12:03 pm

      Oh my Kirby! You sound like me!! I love love the pieces from my grandparents that they got when young couple. The thought of changing what attracted them to the piece hurts me!

      Reply
  2. Shannon @ Fox Hollow Cottage

    August 05, 2013 at 7:20 pm

    BAM! I’m a fan. Entered 😉 This really turned out darling. My feeling is… make it yours while you’ve got it. Life is meant to be enjoyed, If it brings you joy, paint it! Just gives the next generation something to do when they strip and restore 😉 LOL! After all they are just things. Not the actual memories.

    Reply
    • jessie

      August 06, 2013 at 3:49 pm

      So true Shannon!!!

      Reply
  3. Kathy @ Creative Home Expressions

    August 05, 2013 at 7:23 pm

    Nicely done, Debbie! I love that color.

    Reply
    • jessie

      August 06, 2013 at 3:50 pm

      The color is perfect….I love it.

      Reply
  4. Shannon

    August 05, 2013 at 7:24 pm

    I think this a very personal choice. I see all sides to the debate, but honestly, once it’s given to you, unless altering it depreciates it, then go for it! I love vintage/old/antique pieces that are given new life and more history made. Also what’s the sense in having things in your home that don’t make you happy. If it’s not your style or to your liking than make it so. Life is to short to live with what you don’t love!! Just my honest opinion!

    Reply
  5. Debra@CommonGround

    August 05, 2013 at 7:36 pm

    my thoughts are if you have something you don’t “love” then make it loveable! this ole’ “you can never paint this” is ridiculous! your jewelry cabinet is adorable, and LOVE those great curtains!

    Reply
  6. ellen casper

    August 05, 2013 at 7:39 pm

    I have the craddle I slept in as a baby and both my boys have too.

    Reply
  7. Rae Henderson

    August 05, 2013 at 7:42 pm

    I love it. I’ve always been the same way….never touch an antique….but I am about to paint a little secretary I’ve had for years. It is oak and in pretty bad shape. It has a water mark on it and when we moved we had some items stole from a car break-in. I had a drawer from that unit in the car. Of course all items were long gone, so I have a piece with a missing drawer. I’ve now decided to paint it and try and bring it to life again.

    Reply
    • debbiedoo's

      August 06, 2013 at 9:48 pm

      Good luck, let us know how it goes.

      Reply
  8. Dawn

    August 05, 2013 at 7:47 pm

    Yes to paint, it is so darn cute now Debbie:)

    Reply
  9. Judith Bush Polcari

    August 05, 2013 at 8:04 pm

    The sewing box looks great…..As for the jewelry, only fix what needs to be fixed,(like loose stones, and broken pins). Otherwise leave them alone. My opinion……Love all that you do….

    Reply
  10. Penny @ The Comforts of Home

    August 05, 2013 at 8:05 pm

    Turned out really wonderful and you did have permission to paint it!

    Reply
  11. Jeanette @ Creating a Life

    August 05, 2013 at 8:08 pm

    Well, you’ve just proven that *sometimes* it’s ok to paint! This turned out super cute! Still an heirloom, but as you said, just more “you” now. Nothing wrong with that, I love it.

    Jeanette

    Reply
  12. Mary

    August 05, 2013 at 8:12 pm

    I think it all depends on the piece and the connections that others in the family have to it as the way it is. If there are none (your family could care less) and you know your paint will not drastically reduce the market value of the piece then I say go for it! If however there is someone who thinks it should remain a certain way then unfortunately you often have to grin and bear it as it is! I speak from experience on this one! LOL! The piece you painted is definitely in the could use an update category and you certainly did a beautiful job on it. It looks fantastic. Beautiful redo!

    Reply
  13. Marty@A Stroll Thru Life

    August 05, 2013 at 8:35 pm

    Great sewing chest. I think it looks fabulous. I say to each his own. Do what you feel is perfect. Hugs, Marty

    Reply
  14. Pam @ diy Design Fanatic

    August 05, 2013 at 8:48 pm

    Love the new finish on your sewing chest Debbie. I inherited a chair from my grandmother that I am thinking of painting. It’s an antique reproduction Louis XV chair. If it were the real thing, I wouldn’t touch it as it would affect it’s value. Not sure how my sister will feel about it, though. Paint can always be stripped.

    Reply
  15. Cindy

    August 05, 2013 at 8:56 pm

    What a treasure and it looks beautiful against your drapes, the perfect color! If it is a really nice antique piece of furniture, I don’t like to paint them but if it is in really bad shape I say go for it!
    Blessings,
    Cindy

    Reply
  16. Kim

    August 05, 2013 at 9:25 pm

    Cute makeover and always good to have extra storage that looks nice, too.

    Reply
  17. Amy

    August 05, 2013 at 9:32 pm

    I’m with you, Debbie..I generally like to preserve antiques in their original condition. But if you are not enjoying them that way, then by all means, change it up! I think your basket looks better now that it’s painted.

    Reply
  18. Nicole

    August 05, 2013 at 10:10 pm

    It all depends on personal preference. I have family pieces I have painted/altered but then I have a little child sized hutch my grandma handmade for me when I was three that I just can’t for the life of me paint. That being said though I love what you did with it. It looks amazing.

    Reply
  19. Melanie Willis

    August 05, 2013 at 10:38 pm

    I think it depends on the piece. I have some inherited antiques that I have painted and they still tell their story. I also have other pieces that I would never paint. I love genealogy so knowing the story and passing that on to my children is very important.

    Reply
  20. heather

    August 05, 2013 at 10:59 pm

    I love how that turned out! I remember when you got it! I think you made a great decision with painting it!

    Reply
  21. Joy Dollar

    August 05, 2013 at 11:18 pm

    Debbie, I love it!!! and it perfectly matches your window treatments! Beautiful! Enjoy!

    Reply
  22. Anna Starner

    August 05, 2013 at 11:22 pm

    I love it! Goes so great with your room now. I also love the idea of using it for jewelry. I have painted old pieces and now I love them, thats what is important. If I don’t have a place for it as is but I know it will work painted or stripped I will do it. I do have some antiques that I wouldn’t paint but others I have no problem making my own.

    Reply
  23. Kim Hites

    August 05, 2013 at 11:38 pm

    Loved the video Debbie. Thanks for sharing it. I agree with everyone else that it’s a personal preference/choice on what to do with “heirlooms”.

    Reply
  24. Carol

    August 05, 2013 at 11:43 pm

    No, I don’t paint family heirlooms or antiques. I just can’t do that.

    Reply
  25. Angela

    August 06, 2013 at 12:26 am

    I like the new color! It looks like it goes perfectly in your room!! I always just let the furniture talk to me! I do have a hard time painting things that were my moms though. Maybe once she passes I’ll change my mind but they hold so many memories of my childhood, I guess I fear I’ll forget! Crazy!!!~~Ang

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  26. Kris

    August 06, 2013 at 1:47 am

    I love it in the blue!!! Good job!!
    xo KRIS

    Reply
  27. Victoria

    August 06, 2013 at 6:34 am

    Well, you know I would definitely have painted it too! I think it’s better to paint it to suit your style rather than sticking it up in an attic or basement if it doesn’t go with your decor. It’s not something you ever planned on selling anyway so the actual dollar value of it isn’t important! It looks great:)

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  28. Debbie

    August 06, 2013 at 6:36 am

    I would definitely have painted that, mainly because you were given “permission” but also because it looks so perfect painted. I do know what you mean, though. It’s so hard to make the decision which things are paintable and which are not. I have a table that belonged to my grandmother and her grandmother. The twin to it is in the Smithsonian (I saw it. That’s how I know.) I love it more than any treasure I own, but there is always this nagging voice that tells me the finish takes away from the rest of the room it’s in.

    Also, I stripped some chairs back in the 80s to refinish and THEN discovered that I had devalued them by a huge amount because they were a specific finish which is valuable. Still want to kick myself because of that. I never refinished them. I felt so guilty that they are hiding in my attic in mid finish. True story.

    Rambling. Sorry. LOVE your sewing basket.

    Reply
    • debbiedoo's

      August 06, 2013 at 9:50 pm

      I love your rambles, really gets us thinking right?!

      Reply
  29. Stephanie

    August 06, 2013 at 8:53 am

    I love the color and the light distressing you added as well. It can be a difficult choice to change a family heirloom, but I think that you did a great job at breathing new life into it!

    Reply
  30. jen

    August 06, 2013 at 10:31 am

    make it your own 🙂

    Reply
  31. Diane

    August 06, 2013 at 10:51 am

    Debbie, I love the new look of your sewing basket; it is beautiful against your bedroom drapes. The few heirloom items I have from my grandmothers are not furniture, so I’ve never had to struggle with the paint or not paint dilemma for them. However, I do have my own rocking chair from my “baby-hood”. About 35 years ago, when pregnant with my first child, I was decorating the nursery and decided to paint the chair white. Many years later, I decided I wanted it returned to its natural finish. My precious daddy sanded it down (since it had spindles on the back, he said that was a very tedious job!) and restained it for me. Daddy is no longer with us and that chair now means the world to me … to know his hands lovingly touched every inch of it makes it one of my most cherished possessions. (PS You’re right … the video was very touching.)
    Diane

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  32. Lisa Cooper

    August 06, 2013 at 11:03 am

    Paint! Yeah!

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  33. Savannah Granny

    August 06, 2013 at 11:12 am

    Debbie, I love your new/old sewing basket. I think this was an heirloom that was served well by a doo over!
    it look great in your bedroom.
    I have an entertainment center my dad made in the 60s. The first one I had ever seen. Back then people still had large floor model TVs. He build it around the TV. I have it in my den but it is an orangey pine and goes with nothing. I wanted to paint it white, which would look great in that room. Bob insists that I should not paint it. My dad would NOT have cared. He was always changing things and he made it the way he did because it made sense in their den.One daughter says paint it another says NO. The one who says no is the one who will inherit the piece.Her husband says leave me alone and let me do what I want with it. As you can see, there has been much discussion about this entertainment center. Maybe if I win the gift certificate I can buy some white paint. LOL! Ginger
    xoGinger

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  34. Cynthia

    August 06, 2013 at 11:46 am

    Debbie what a great piece and how lucky you are to have pieces handed down to you from family members. I have a few pieces that were my moms but they aren’t antique. They have a lot of sentimental value for me and that is important to me. Love the color you chose.

    Cynthia

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  35. Angelina-JoJo and Eloise

    August 06, 2013 at 12:59 pm

    Such a BEAUTIFUL, BEAUTIFUL piece. I love that it has Family Value and will continue to get passed down. I also Love the color you chose, it works and goes perfect with it. 🙂
    xoxo

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  36. Wendy

    August 06, 2013 at 1:07 pm

    I think whether I’d alter something depends on what it is. There are some things I’d have no hesitation in painting, but I have an old wicker rocking chair that my mom bought when I was born to rock me in and it sat in my childhood room until a few years ago when mom gave it to me. It’s in rough shape and needs some fixing up, but I don’t think I’d paint it. Just the sight of it brings back so many memories and if its physical appearance changed drastically I think I’d lose that.

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  37. Kathleen

    August 06, 2013 at 2:38 pm

    Sadly, I don’t have any family heirlooms. I have one piece that my Mom got somewhere when she was newly married. It was painted a million times. I stripped it down and restored it. Now I want to paint it! That’s all I have. 🙁 Your sewing box turned out amazing. It actually looks older (vintage) after the paint. It was a perfect color. Great job.

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  38. Charlotte

    August 06, 2013 at 3:29 pm

    What a beautiful family heirloom! You are truly blessed to have things passed down. I have my Mom’s teacup & saucer collection (not that I am a fan…but she loved them…therefore I love them).

    There is one thing I cherish & it is a picnic basket our family used for many a picnic & trips to the beach. After my Mom had died, my Dad and I were puttering in his little storage barn. Up overhead, sat the picnic basket. I got it down & our last name had been printed on the top. I asked my Dad if he knew where it came from, but he had no idea & said that I should have it.

    I do still have it & a friend painted some cheese & mice on it with the word Picnic! I guess it is my family heirloom!

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  39. dianne anderson

    August 06, 2013 at 3:50 pm

    You have inspired me to paint my mother’s vintage sewing box, I know she would approve.

    Reply
  40. Poppy

    August 06, 2013 at 4:03 pm

    What a beautiful job you’ve done, Debbie! Family heirlooms are to be cherished forever and if it is re purposed to continue enjoying it and incorporate it into your decor at the same time, then why not? Giving it a facelift doesn’t necessarily mean you altered it completely! I love the sewing basket and looks perfectly pretty in your bedroom:) Very touching video, indeed! Have a wonderful day!Hugs,Poppy

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  41. Bliss

    August 06, 2013 at 4:56 pm

    It looks good in Louis and yes the video did choke me up. No matter what someone does to an heirloom, paint it, restain it – that doesn’t change it’s history.
    Bliss

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  42. Kris

    August 06, 2013 at 8:05 pm

    Debbie,
    It is so perfect in your bedroom. I love that color too. You have made this your own. Love it.
    Kris

    Reply
  43. Lynn

    August 06, 2013 at 9:25 pm

    I love that color…super cute. I think you took and made it yours and have now brought on a new meaning/memory for the next lucky one to receive such a great piece. I believe in making memories around what we have in our home even if it is a passed down heirloom and if painting it brings on a new memory…then go for it.

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  44. Donna Ingalls

    August 06, 2013 at 9:26 pm

    I love your sewing chest. What a beautiful color.
    My family heirloom is my great grandmother’s butter churning chair. I reprinted it a different color to match my living room and no one can believe that it’s over 100 years old.

    Reply
  45. kim d.

    August 06, 2013 at 9:45 pm

    i would have painted it if it was my grandma’s. i love the makeover and tender heart me cried over the video. i know my grandma would have been looking down and smiling that i made it my own; that i made it fit my house. see, when i was growing up my grandparents didn’t have alot. my grandma got down on her hands and knees and sewed together pieces of carpet that someone else had cut up to remove from their house and my grandpa brought home. she spent days sewing with thick carpet thread to make it her own. i can still see those pretty flowers on that dark red wool carpet.. what i wouldn’t do to be able to to walk across it and hear my grandma singing in the kitchen, or to hear my grandpa sounding out words as he read from the bible. and, i wish i had that piano bench that doubled as a seat at the kitchen table for the smaller grand kids. grandma would have been proud that i loved it enough to make it my own .. i bet your husband’s grandma is too.

    Reply
    • debbiedoo's

      August 06, 2013 at 9:47 pm

      Oh that is so dang sweet you made me tear up. That video sure is a tear jerker, but oh so sweet. Thank you for sharing your sweet story with us.

      Reply
  46. Shirley@housepitalitydesigns

    August 06, 2013 at 10:32 pm

    Oh Debbie…it is so beautiful…your hubby’s grandmother would have loved that!…and I must say that I am in love with your bedroom drapery fabric!!!!

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  47. Shirley@housepitalitydesigns

    August 06, 2013 at 10:38 pm

    Oh..and Debbie, that video is so “true”… I cannot imagine it not bringing anyone one to sob…as I write this, I am looking at something that my dad made…oh how I miss him.

    Reply
  48. Kathy

    August 06, 2013 at 11:57 pm

    Posted on FB. I say keep the family heirlooms as they are but I am itching to paint MIL’s hope chest. Video was touching. I have always loved True vValue!

    Reply
  49. Ann

    August 07, 2013 at 8:24 am

    I loved the video. We own quite a few inherited pieces. Some are very large and most likely won’t be altered…but I’ve painted a couple of smaller pieces and have no regrets. In fact I think they look updated now and the paint job gave them a whole new life. A family heirloom means nothing if you don’t use it and love it. If altering it in a positive way makes it emotionally valuable to the next generation, then I say go for it! Loved this post. ~Ann

    Reply
  50. Anne@DesignDreams

    August 07, 2013 at 8:59 am

    Love this makeover! You did such a beautiful job and that colour is fabulous. Love love love!!!

    Reply
  51. Martina

    August 07, 2013 at 9:45 am

    What a pretty makeover…I love the color! It looks great up against those pretty panels!

    Reply
  52. Bev

    August 07, 2013 at 4:04 pm

    I love your makeover of the vintage sewing basket and I am so loving the color that you used.

    I feel that when a person leaves an item to you that they intend for you to use it in the way that you want to. I think Mike’s Grandmother would love seeing the two of you enjoying this gorgeous sewing basket together and see what pleasure it brings to you.

    Reply
  53. Julie {Lilacs & Longhorns}

    August 08, 2013 at 1:02 pm

    Debbie, this looks fantastic! And, I am in love with your drapery fabric, too!

    I have painted a couple of family heirlooms only because I felt it enhanced the piece, otherwise, I’m with you and hesitate to paint or alter them. In fact, I just posted about wavering on whether or not to paint an antique I have. In the pictures it looks like a more expensive piece, but truthfully it is missing parts, has holes in the marble, etc. So I’m really considering giving it a facelift. But, I think I’ll keep it as is and just keep looking for something more paintable on Craig’s list or at a garage sale.

    Anyway…I’m rambling! Love what you did…looks great! 🙂
    Julie

    Reply
  54. Shari

    August 10, 2013 at 10:17 pm

    I have several things I’d like to, and plan to, refinish or what have you both from parents & grandparents, but I’ve not quite worked up the courage to start. I know, I know…. LOL

    Reply
  55. Misty @Throughthedutchdoor

    November 16, 2013 at 11:47 pm

    I have one of these sewing baskets! It was my grandmother’s, and my grandfather actually made it! I also have her antique sewing machine and vanity chair to go with it.

    Reply

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